Does anybody else get frustrated when thinking about technology or is it just me? I’m so confused by all the abbreviations, names of things( gigabytes, megabytes or whatever they are called) etc. Can we please go back to simpler times when blackberries and apples were just fruits and nothing else?
Technology can be a good thing. I understand that. But it has also caused our society and world to become much more fast paced and less social. We now text someone instead of calling them, write on their facebook wall( when I was young if someone mentioned writing on a wall...it was usually followed by “ do that and you are in serious trouble!” ) for their birthday instead of calling them and wishing them happy birthday in a more personal way. I long for the days when people would actually hang out in person, get to know each other personally and have real relationships with people instead of getting to know each other over the internet.
Take a minute and think of your Facebook friends. How many of them do you actually talk to outside of Facebook? How many of them do you really know and have real relationships with?
If this is now, imagine the future? Is this the kind of social life you want your children to have? Where they don’t talk to their friends except over the internet and texting? I know I don’t want that for my children( if I am ever blessed with any). I want them to have real and true relationships with real and true people.
The change must start with us.
I encourage everyone to start putting more effort into actually getting to know your friends personally instead of getting to know them over the internet. Pick up the phone and give people a call, arrange a coffee date or go for a walk. If that’s not possible( because if you are anything like me you have friends from all over the world) arrange a skype date.
I really am looking forward to getting to know more of my friends personally and having a real and true relationship with them. It is just so much better!
Make the effort, pick up the phone, go for a walk, or just hang out and talk! It’s so much better then texting or chatting over facebook!
Shalom!